How Much Should Bridesmaids Spend?

February 25, 2011

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We hear this question all the time...how much should bridesmaids be expected to spend on wedding expenses in exchange for the honor of being an attendant?

When you add it all up...shower gift, wedding gift, dress, shoes, hair, bachelorette party, possibly transportation and hotel for a destination wedding...it can take a real toll on your pocketbook. And groomsmen often have the same concerns.

You can be sensitive to this issue in several ways. Choose maids dresses that don't cost a fortune. Share in some of the attendants' expenses. Don't expect an expensive wedding gift. In fact, often an entire group of maids or groomsmen will present the couple with a group gift, and this can be an ideal way to convey your best wishes at the least expense for each attendant.

And, in the final analysis, communicate with attendants early on so that everyone is clear on who is responsible for what, and who pays for what. Then you will all be more relaxed during the months leading up to your wedding...and on your big day!

Happy planning,

Susan

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I'd also say make events option. I was in a wedding in AZ and the only way I could afford it was by not going to the shower or bachelorette party.

Also, if you ARE having out of state bridesmaids, not planning around a holiday weekend can be a huge savings. I had to fly to AZ on Easter wedding. But the bride did find me a place to stay for free, which was nice.

Posted by Jen A. Miller February 25, 2011 13:42:30

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