If you’re looking for that special touch to make your reception fun and memorable, add a sexy, showy signature cocktail (or two) to your bar menu. Whether you dream up a single libation named for both bride and groom (Patty and Paul’s Pomegranate Punch) or serve two distinctly different his-and-her cocktails (Lindsay’s Sweet Tea and Larry’s Sour Mash), you’re sure to make a big splash with your guests. “A great flavor choice for a cocktail is chocolate because it has universal appeal,” says wedding planner Stacey Kallenberg of As You Wish Weddings & Events in Midland Park (201-421-6394; asyouwishwed.biz).