By April Kabbash

You and your fiancé have a love like no other. So why not plan your wedding in a setting that is equally grand? New Jersey is home to many estates and mansions, both public and private, perfect for hosting your big day.

Carol Beaugard, president and founder of Affairs of Distinction in Upper Montcliar, says that one of the benefits of holding a wedding on an estate is the uniqueness it offers to the couple and their guests. Estates often

feature impressive mansions, architectural elements, and expansive grounds, presenting a majestic backdrop for a wedding. Imagine a summer wedding with cocktails on the veranda as guests wander through beautiful gardens, or a winter wedding in front of a roaring fire.

Estates also offer a private setting for an event. “Couples can be assured that their affair will be held in peaceful seclusion with private access limited to

their guest list,” says Beaugard. And since most of these venues plan only one wedding per day or weekend, you won't be rushed out after three hours because the next couple is on their way in.

But these fabulous locations often involve a lot more work and planning than an average wedding. In many cases, everything from tents and chairs to generators and dance floors will have to be brought in. “When handling a wedding of this magnitude and detail,” says Beaugard, “it is best to work with a professional who can manage the event so it runs smoothly and properly.” But for brides who would rather go it alone, there are things that can help smooth the way.

Try to find a venue that has held events similar to what you have in mind. And keep logistics like proximity to hotels for out-of-town guests in mind.

Another thing to think about is accessibility. Will anyone attending the wedding have special requirements, like wheelchairs or walkers? Some  locations are much better suited to handicapped needs than others.

Also keep in mind that your location may affect your guest list. Many mansions and historic homes available for weddings have space for only a limited number of guests inside. These locations are perfect for an intimate wedding of 30, but if your dream day includes 350 of your nearest and dearest, you will also have to think about renting tents, and what to do if the weather makes tenting impossible.

“As with any wedding, always have a back-up plan,” suggests Beaugard. Whether you need it or not, it will give you the peace of mind you need to enjoy your perfect day in the perfect setting.