InstantForum.NET v4.1.4NewJerseyBride.comhttp://www.newjerseybride.com/Bride/Messageboard/webmaster@newjerseybride.comSun, 23 Nov 2008 07:46:20 GMT20http://www.newjerseybride.com/Bride/Messageboard/Topic36-9-1.aspxIn my opinion, if you are trying to make it as intamate as possible just invite the amount of people you already agreed on. Which was what 20 or 28 people? You dont have to invite others if you dont want to. If it is going to make you uncomfortable that a certain person is there then just dont invite them at all. And dont leave a opening for that person to come either. So if I were you i wouldnt add the +1 to the invites.Tue, 08 Jan 2008 22:59:06 GMTSoonToBeMrsConoverhttp://www.newjerseybride.com/Bride/Messageboard/Topic36-9-1.aspxhello, I am having a very very intimate wedding (28 people) and I was wondering do I have to write +1 on my bridesmaids invite? Since it is a small wedding, my fiance & I feel we only want very close family & friends. My bridesmaid has been dating a man, but my fiance & I do not trust him and do not want him at our wedding. Is it wrong to tell her married or engaged couples only? My bridesmaids have gotten off easy compared to other weddings, they just have to show up and they are wearing a dress of there choice.Mon, 04 Jun 2007 22:26:34 GMTsaw912